Out Of The Gutter

Life has changed dramatically from just 10 years ago. I have been taught that the way I hold myself and the things I say show who I am. I am a firm believer of that. Although I am not perfect I hope to at least make an impression on others. Sure I may have a lot of things to work on and am not perfect but I am not someone who swears or talks in a sexual manner. Some say they are just words, but I know there is more to it. People watch you. No matter where you are, they do. Potential employers, companions, and friends watch you. Foul language gives a vibe of "I am tough" I admit that. It makes you unapproachable to some and to others it just makes you look stupid. Can't we show we know other words to express ourselves?

In many places in my life right now I am surrounded by bad language. I have come to the realization that people can't change so easily, and it's not likely that those around me will. I love them so much, I have many friendships with them, and I know their true characters aren't shown by the things they say. But... I don't have to tolerate that kind of talk. At first the language of my co-workers shocked me. In my work place (An Assisted Living Center) we are surrounded by residents and their families, not to mention potential residents who come to see our community. It makes me SICK that people have to hear us talking this way. It's unprofessional, and makes us look horrible. No one on this earth could argue that fact with me. When I first worked there I would make an uncomfortable face at things said. I didn't want to hurt their feelings, or anger someone. Some would notice, others wouldn't care. As I got to know them I became friends with them and began to understand my limits. Soon after, I respectfully would ask them to say a different word, or have a "retry"! Some days a humorous undertone filled my words, and it lightened the mood, but always my point was made. That I don't like swearing. They have ALWAYS respected me. Whether it take weeks or even months, they always are kind.

To me that is all it takes, a friendly manner, persistence, and not to mention courage. We don't have to be in a world of filth if we don't want to. We can take control of things around us and better them. The evils of the world aren't the inevitable that are caving around us and blinding our vision. We have the power to open a window and let light in. It all starts with filling our days with Christ. Reading scriptures, and praying each day. They seem like such little things and can be easily missed, but the power in them is outstanding.

"Stay out of the gutter in your conversation. Foul talk defiles the man who speaks it." -Gordon B. Hinckley